I hate setting specific goals or anything like that, so, to keep it simple: enjoy myself more and caring less about the consequences (to a certain extent ofcourse). Regarding the theme on the site that means two things: 1. Eat whatever I want, whenever I want and not worry about my weight, just sit back and enjoy. 2. Further let go of any remaining 'shame' (or whatever) regarding my preference for bigger women. Allthough I think I already did quite well on that point the last few years.